Women born or raised in the South are known for their southern charm. Contrary to what this new urban culture is led to believe, women from the South represent more than just twerking and big posteriors. Here are 10 tips every Southern woman should follow.
10.Every Southern woman should know the 4 Ps. Poise, Presence, Posture, and Personable. Poise - every Southern woman should remain graceful and elegant.Southern women should represent class and feminism. Presence - a Southern woman should own a room simply by walking into it with grace, confidence, and style. She should be the center of attention without actions or speech. Posture - a true lady is the main characteristic of the Southern woman. While in public, she should sit with her back straight, legs or ankles crossed, hands folded gracefully. Personable - known for her Southern charm, a real Southern woman always offers warm salutations and is quick to lend a hand to those in need. 9. A Southern woman must always respect her mate. Even in times of disagreement with her partner or spouse she knows she must give respect to get it. This is why she chooses her mates very carefully. As hard as it may be, she must learn to think before she speaks. If your partner is extremely upset and is saying something you may not agree with, this is the perfect opportunity to utilize your pose without being confrontational. Remain silent but allow your body language to express your disdain. Sit with your back rigid and arms folded. Allow him to express himself fully. 8. A Southern woman is always a good hostess when she welcomes someone into her home. Offer your guests appetizers or snacks upon arrival. If you are having over night guests it is always a great idea to prepare a little gift bag with toiletries and a bottle of water. 7. A Southern Woman must always have a simple black dress and black pair of pumps as part of her wardrobe. A black pair of pumps and a simple black dress are two very versatile articles of clothing in your wardrobe. You can dress them up for a formal occasion paired with a blazer, or dress them down with a night on the town. Fun accessories and colorful clutches are key. 6. A Southern Woman loves makeup but knows it is simply to enhance her natural beauty. Southern women are not into getting their "face beat". Opt for concealer or a foundation stick, eye lashes, primer, and a lipstick pallete. Your makeup should be minimal and not over exaggerated to the point if you smile it looks like your face will break. Your makeup application should take less than 5 minutes and you should still have a flawless and natural coverage without suffocating your pores. 5.Southern women value family and spirituality. Family and faith are the most important values a true Southern woman upholds. Family is first before anything and she knows that what she believes is what keeps her morally grounded. 4. Southern women are hygenic and clean. She believes in pampering herself through spa days, manicures, and pedicures, and keeping up her appearance. Her body is her temple and her home is her sanctuary. She makes sure her home is clean.She takes pride in where she rests her head. Her residence is tidy and free of dust. 3. A Southern Woman must have a signature dish. She is taught the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.Although she may not be an expert chef she knows the importance of at least being able to create one phenomenal meal or dish. 2. The Southern Woman understands the importance of education and literacy. She must be able to converse on a variety of topics and not just be a known for her beauty or graceful charm.She can carry her own in any debate and is constantly seeking truth and more knowledge about the world around her. She loves to learn and prefers the company of people who she can learn from. 1. The Southern Woman has Southern pride. Although she may leave the South. She knows where her roots are. She takes pride in her upbringing and heritage. She is quick to defend herself from the negative stereotypes associated with Southern living. She is a representation of her state and her community. She remains grounded and proud despite the diverse cultures, people, and enviroments she encounters. She knows she is jewel like no other, A Queen, a phenomenal woman, and she is a positive representation of the Dirty South.
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